People generally say 'I love you', 'I love my parents', 'I love my house'' etc...and in that love, it's broken to 'How Much'. So, what is love and can love be measured?

Love is different for different people, The expectations built around love gets defined in earlier stages of life when you watch your close relatives expressing love for you. For some people love is attachment, for some people love is attraction, for some people love is boding and for some people love is possessiveness... As we grow spiritually, the experience and expectations from love differ. read less

Real love comes with spiritual understanding or with knowledge of truth or absolute reality, all other love is transient and limited by constraints. Because there is feeling a complete all inclusiveness in that understanding. We can find people have most quarrels in there homes only, yet we coexist due to mutual benefits, similarly this can be extended to friends, work and society at large. read less

If love has to be measured then it is not love. A mother never measures her love for her children. It is always unconditional. Love has to be unconditional, no matter with how many flaws the other person is born with. That is why it is called love. We dnt judge, measure or try to see how many good points he/she has to be loved. Yes, in today's world this kind of love doesn't exist too much but it is still there. You will find it in a mother's heart. You will see it in an infant holding ur hand and trusting you completely. It is there, but we have to see it. Loving things is not love. It is pure insecurity of losing that thing, that is why one says it. Loving people unconditionally is love.. The best way to understand or see love, is to see a child. One can actually learn from them.. read less

minds are fixed, they are not open, they approach everything from a fixed point of view. You are young now, but if you are not very watchful, you will also become like that. Is it not then very important to understand the mind and to see whether you cannot be supple, be capable of instant adjustments, of extraordinary capacities in every department of life, of deep research and understanding, instead of gradually becoming dull? Should you not know the ways of the mind so as to understand the way of love? Because, it is the mind that destroys love. Clever people, people who are cunning, do not know what love is because their minds are so sharp, because they are so clever, because they are so superficial - which means to be on the surface, and love is not a thing that exists on the surface. read less