Scared to speak publicly. Low confidence level
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Shweta Mandal
I just don't make you confident, I make you imposible to ignore through your commmnication
You are not alone: 50% of people class themselves as shy. Never be embarrassed to say to someone, ‘I am so shy, and this situation is making me a little nervous. Please ignore my blushing/nervous giggling/stuttering etc; I’ll relax in a minute!’ Don't be scared people are not going to eat you:).. we...
read more You are not alone: 50% of people class themselves as shy. Never be embarrassed to say to someone, ‘I am so shy, and this situation is making me a little nervous. Please ignore my blushing/nervous giggling/stuttering etc; I’ll relax in a minute!’ Don't be scared people are not going to eat you:).. we all face nervousness while speaking in crowd .. follow few guidelines to over come your shyness... Find out what motivates you most. Stop comparing yourself with others you have your own specialties. Stand up straight!,Walk confidently.,Speak clearly. You should like yourself, Be confident of what you are. Start conversation with new people every day. At last NEVER GIVE UP.. No matter what . :) read less
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Many of the students have the same issue. You need to involve yourself in group tasks and try to expose yourself in talking proactively and keep practicing.
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Dear Anil, Try this technique: 1. prepare your points well in advance, for any public speaking session. 2. Practice these points standing in front of a mirror. 3. practice the same technique until you reach a comfort level. 3. Also, when you deliver your speech imagine you are still standing in front...
read more Dear Anil, Try this technique: 1. prepare your points well in advance, for any public speaking session. 2. Practice these points standing in front of a mirror. 3. practice the same technique until you reach a comfort level. 3. Also, when you deliver your speech imagine you are still standing in front of a mirror, trust me this helps. 4. Try , try until you attain your desired goal. 5. All the best. Regards. read less
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All above answers covered most of it.Although easier said than done. Hand holding initially helps.Work on self-confidence any fear is good if conquered so attack!!!!
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Mayur Kangutkar
IELTS & English Communication Skills Trainer, over 10 Years of training & coaching experience
There's nothing to worry about. However, you should try talking to strangers. If you're working or study in then try talking to those colleagues or classmates with whom you didn't talk at all.. If possible, try talking to managers and teachers. Also talk to people when you travel. Once you gather confidence...
read more There's nothing to worry about. However, you should try talking to strangers. If you're working or study in then try talking to those colleagues or classmates with whom you didn't talk at all.. If possible, try talking to managers and teachers. Also talk to people when you travel. Once you gather confidence in talking to people you don't know then it will be very easy to stand before an unknown audience and make a presentation. read less
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Mayur Kangutkar
IELTS & English Communication Skills Trainer, over 10 Years of training & coaching experience
There's nothing to worry about. However, you should try talking to strangers. If you're working or studying then try talking to those colleagues or classmates with whom you didn't talk at all.. If possible, try talking to managers and teachers. Also talk to people when you travel. Once you gather confidence...
read more There's nothing to worry about. However, you should try talking to strangers. If you're working or studying then try talking to those colleagues or classmates with whom you didn't talk at all.. If possible, try talking to managers and teachers. Also talk to people when you travel. Once you gather confidence in talking to people you don't know then it will be very easy to stand before an unknown audience and make a presentation. read less
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Philipose John
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Even people like Abraham Lincoln and Winston Churchhill had butterflies in their stomach in the first few moments when they spoke to public, it is practice that makes us perfect, and it is not difficult, for 10 days, stand in front of a mirror and speak about something that you like for 5 minutes, for...
read more Even people like Abraham Lincoln and Winston Churchhill had butterflies in their stomach in the first few moments when they spoke to public, it is practice that makes us perfect, and it is not difficult, for 10 days, stand in front of a mirror and speak about something that you like for 5 minutes, for more details and exercises reach out to me. read less
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Sunita Bandekar
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See being aware about improving your confidence and public speaking is great, you can come to me or online with me for certain help would love to do that for you.
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Pradeep Mukherjee
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