How to develop my personality?

Hi My dear Parveen , Saw your message. Its very quite pleasant interesting to know about your child., who seeks more attention from you. Parveen just understand, generally this kind of seeking attention in a child is quite normal. The child is seeking more attention from you than anybody else. For example:Now imagine that As you when make your child sleep in a cradle ,then you start doing work . Child,when they are awake from sleep . What do they do? 1. Child will find you whether you are near or far. When you are near the child knows that you will love and pamper your child to stop him/her cry.2. Now say you are far doing your work busily, this is the time the child start crying ...if no response,child will cry too much after an extent. This is the idea child creates to grab your attention towards him/her by crying a lot .And child also knows that if you are frustrated ,you will slightly hit a child, That sense of touch of motherthe child likes and expects. Not only your love , your slight hit also your child likes a lot. See how clever child is seeking attention. If this idea by 1/2 yrs kid does, then why not at 4yrs. See, during their childhood you as a Mother must have protected ,given most care love and caressed much and you might have not even hit your child. Now your child in 4 years might or will think ,why my mom not caring me as like before. Why she is not helping to brush my teeth and in taking bath, why she is always angry, she she beats me and why she shouts at me... These are the only questions they know... They don't even whether their thinking is right or wrong. They don't know even about themselves If this is the case,how your child in 4 yrs will understand you , how do child know to respond you ,Parveen. As a mother please understand this. Your child is seeking more attention, he or she feels to have your sense of caress touch of yours. And when do you feel that your child behaves in a tantrum behavior, just find and observe the reason for why child s behaving like DAT, For this divert your kid ,play with him or her with toys.Spend more with your child.Come what may , don't behave rude or harsh towards your child. If not this seeking attention tantrum will become very aggressive. So, don't give chances for this. Be polite , even if child makes mistakes correct your child by telling moral stories. Be sensible towards your child. Best wishes!!!! :-)) read less

You can make your personality the way it is suitable for what you wish to do. But right now, the personality that you have created for yourself has become a compulsive process. Unconsciously, people create a personality for themselves. The question is not which is better, which is worse. The question is just – are you compulsively stuck to your personality, or do you consciously keep it at a little distance to yourself? Your personality is your making. Suppose you put two children of the same parents through the same school and the same culture, they will still not turn out the same.The way you are right now is made up by you, but you have forgotten that you made it up. If you knew you made up this personality, you could change it. You don’t have to nurture your personality. You must hold it at a little distance. Like for example, when you wear loose clothes, you are always conscious that these are your clothes, not a part of yourself. Suppose you wore tight nylon clothes, after some time, it would feel like your own skin – you would lose the distinction between your clothes and you. If you keep a distance between your clothes and yourself, you do not get stuck to them. Similarly, you must keep your personality, your body, and your mind at a little distance. read less