0BEING EXTRA ORDINARY
One of the major aspects which differentiates between ordinary people and extra ordinary people is, way they deal with failures and set backs of life. Every time they failed they learnt something new and stood back. They never failed to get up once again and start the journey again. They were always deaf to the talks of society about their failures. They were always clear about one fact that success and failure come along. We got to accept failure if we are aiming for big success. Major factor which pulls many back is fear of failure and fear of facing the society after the first failure. But every successful person has failed in one or two ventures before he became a legend and learned lessons out of the failures and didn’t care about feelings of failure.
Other aspect of Successful people is importance of Emotional Intelligence. It’s a big subject but just to summarize they don’t celebrate too much for any success and they don’t cry too much for a failure. Every success gives you more responsibility, so the successful person knows the work to be done after the first success and will never waste much time in celebration rather is ready for the work to do. Also will not cry on failures rather will introspect on what went wrong and will learn and lesson out of it and with new energy and new lessons will get into new venture.
Another very important aspect of extra ordinary people is taking risk. It is always ok to fail in a venture by taking risk but it’s never ok to live mediocre life by not taking a risk thinking of failure. Many people in life lose a lot in their life by not taking risk and at the end of their career they will always say If only I would have done that or if only I would have taken that risk 20 years back life would have been somewhere else.
