The ABCDE Model in Simple Words
The ABCDE model is a simple tool created by psychologists to help us deal with negative thoughts and turn them into more positive, helpful ones.
Here’s what each letter means:
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A – Adversity: A tough situation or problem you face.
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B – Belief: What you tell yourself about that situation.
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C – Consequence: How you feel or what you do because of that belief.
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D – Disputation: Arguing with that negative belief. Looking for proof that it’s not true, or thinking about it from a different angle.
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E – Energization: The positive energy or confidence you feel once you’ve challenged the negative thought.
Real-Life Example (in plain terms):
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Adversity: I applied for a new job but got rejected.
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Belief: “I’m not good enough. I’ll never find a better job.”
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Consequence: I feel hopeless, stop applying for jobs, and sink deeper into sadness.
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Disputation: “Wait—that’s not true. I did a great job at my last workplace, and they always praised me. Maybe this company just wasn’t the right fit. There are still plenty of jobs out there I haven’t applied for.”
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Energization: Now I feel more hopeful and confident. I remind myself that I have valuable skills, and I’m motivated to try again with other opportunities.
👉 In short: The ABCDE model is like a mental filter. Instead of accepting every negative thought as true, you stop, check it, and replace it with something more balanced and helpful.